Episode Transcript
[00:00:01] Speaker A: This is always be a big deal podcast.
And now, please welcome your host, Clay Phoenix, and Jessica Vendetta.
[00:00:42] Speaker B: You know how sick I am of hearing people say, we're taking back the rainbow?
[00:00:47] Speaker C: Oh, my God. Taking back the rainbow.
[00:00:49] Speaker B: If I see that on one more shirt, like, I seriously want to argue with every person that I see. I mean, I don't, because, I mean, trust me, if I. If they were going after my friend or something, heck yeah, I would. But, like, I try not to, like, just start random fights places, but, like, it makes me so mad that they don't fucking understand what that's all about.
[00:01:14] Speaker A: Yeah.
[00:01:14] Speaker B: We're gonna take back the rainbow.
[00:01:16] Speaker C: Yep.
[00:01:16] Speaker B: Well, bitch, we barely see one. It don't even rain that much. So you can take it back all you want, but it seems like you need some on your face because it's always like, the pale faced women that, like, looks like they've never taken it up the ass before that have that shirt on.
You know? It's true.
[00:01:37] Speaker C: I do. So since it's pride month, we should get together and talk about, like, how the rainbow became the symbol of queer culture.
[00:01:46] Speaker B: Yes, we should. Because I honestly don't know.
[00:01:49] Speaker C: Yeah, so we're gonna learn together. I mean, I have a vague representation of, or vague idea of what the representation was for.
[00:01:57] Speaker B: Yeah. I just always thought it was because it was happy.
[00:02:01] Speaker A: So gay means happy.
[00:02:04] Speaker B: Well, I just. When I think of rainbows, I think of happiness, beautiful things.
[00:02:08] Speaker A: I think of hope.
[00:02:09] Speaker B: Okay. That works, too. It's very positive. And that's what I think of when I think of the gay community. And I'm not even kidding. I know there's some drama, there's some things, whatever. But like, anytime I talk about that community with other people that I always try to bread as much as I can about everything. You know what I mean? That's how I describe it. Just happy, good times. The way I take it, that's why the rainbow flag represents that. But I'm sure there's another reason there.
[00:02:38] Speaker C: I mean, I'm sure there's a few reasons, but we're definitely going to get into that.
[00:02:42] Speaker A: This is always be a big deal. Podcast with Clay Phoenix and Jessica Vendetta.
[00:02:49] Speaker C: Moving on to the next segment. Here we are going to first talk about the state's grades. Would you like to know what the state's grades of gay are?
[00:03:00] Speaker B: Yes.
[00:03:01] Speaker C: Okay, so what do you think is the a plus states for a gay grade?
[00:03:06] Speaker B: A plus?
[00:03:07] Speaker A: Yep.
[00:03:07] Speaker C: A plus gay grade.
[00:03:08] Speaker B: Okay. DC.
[00:03:10] Speaker C: No.
[00:03:11] Speaker B: New York. No.
[00:03:12] Speaker C: Oh, my God. No. New York is not either. Okay, so DC. Washington DC is graded circumental. Oh, New York is graded b.
[00:03:22] Speaker B: Okay.
[00:03:23] Speaker C: It's actually kind of a shock when I tell you, like, what the states are, and I think it's just because of their size.
[00:03:28] Speaker B: Okay, what's California?
[00:03:30] Speaker C: California is b.
[00:03:31] Speaker B: Okay. That's what I kind of. I figure Texas is probably an f.
[00:03:35] Speaker C: Texas is a d. Okay, so close to an f, but there is a lot of f states.
[00:03:41] Speaker B: Okay, is Maryland one of them?
[00:03:43] Speaker A: No.
[00:03:43] Speaker C: Maryland is Bdez.
[00:03:45] Speaker B: Okay, good.
[00:03:45] Speaker C: All right, so the a plus states are Rhode Island, New Hampshire, and Delaware. The a states are Alaska and Hawaii.
[00:03:55] Speaker B: Okay.
[00:03:55] Speaker C: The a minus states are Maine and Virginia.
[00:03:59] Speaker B: Surprise about Virginia.
[00:04:00] Speaker C: But okay, the only b plus state is new Mexico.
[00:04:04] Speaker B: Okay.
[00:04:05] Speaker C: B states are Nevada, Connecticut, New York, Maryland, Vermonthe California, North Dakota, Minnesota.
[00:04:13] Speaker B: Okay.
[00:04:13] Speaker C: B minus states are Wisconsin, Arkansas, Colorado. Okay, C plus Montana and Illinois. C States are Oregon, South Carolina, Iowa, Tennessee, Georgia, Washington, DC, Massachusetts, New Jersey, Washington, Michigan. Oh, and that's the last one. Michigan.
[00:04:33] Speaker A: Then.
[00:04:33] Speaker C: C minus states are Oklahoma and Nebraska. D plus is Missouri and Utah. D states are Pennsylvania, Kansas, Idaho, North Carolina, Louisiana, and Texas. And d minus is Indiana. F states come in. They. There's a lot of these.
[00:04:49] Speaker B: Of course.
[00:04:50] Speaker C: F States are Mississippi, Kentucky, Arizona, West Virginia, Alabama, Ohio, Wyoming, Florida, South Dakota.
[00:05:00] Speaker B: All places I will avoid. That's crazy, though.
[00:05:03] Speaker C: I mean. So you're not going to come to Kentucky to visit me?
[00:05:06] Speaker B: Oh, why are you moving there?
[00:05:11] Speaker C: Because it's a good opportunity for work.
[00:05:13] Speaker B: Wait a second. Was that a secret?
[00:05:16] Speaker C: No, I let it out on the podcast.
[00:05:18] Speaker B: Wait, you told people?
[00:05:19] Speaker C: We told people.
[00:05:20] Speaker B: We did.
[00:05:22] Speaker C: The week before I put out the rant episode. Yeah, we had a whole episode where I told you about it, and then the episode before that I had with David, where I told the whole listener base set.
[00:05:34] Speaker D: Oh, yeah.
[00:05:37] Speaker B: Oh, yeah says yes. I'm sorry. I did know that. Okay, good. But they're an f state, Clay.
[00:05:42] Speaker C: I know that.
[00:05:42] Speaker A: I'm going there to make it more gay.
[00:05:44] Speaker B: F as in fucker. Fuck it or fuck him? Yeah, fuck him.
[00:05:48] Speaker C: Yeah, fuck him.
[00:05:50] Speaker B: I'm trying to say working.
Fuck him.
[00:05:55] Speaker C: Fuck him.
[00:05:57] Speaker B: We're coming up with a new term. Here we come. Kentucky. I'm coming, too.
[00:06:02] Speaker C: You're coming. Sounds like a good time.
[00:06:04] Speaker B: Yeah, it is. Every week. All right, what are we even talking about? Newmar.
[00:06:11] Speaker A: This is always be a big deal podcast with Clay Phoenix and Jessica Vendetta.
[00:06:18] Speaker C: Dancing for the devil, the seven M TikTok cult.
[00:06:20] Speaker B: I watched all of it. I mean, it's only three episodes, but yes.
[00:06:23] Speaker C: Yes, it was a. Yeah. Docuseries.
Shekinah Church, Los Angeles, California. Robert Shin was the founder of seven M Films, talent management and the Shekinah church. They say it's a cult. Is it a cult?
[00:06:36] Speaker B: Yes.
[00:06:37] Speaker C: Yes, it is. It's definitely a cult because it's.
[00:06:40] Speaker B: Yeah. To me, they're you.
This doesn't always happen, but they're using the church for other purposes besides prayer and worship. He's using his power for not good things. So.
[00:06:53] Speaker C: Yes, the whole. The whole documentary is giving creepy cult vibes all the way.
[00:06:59] Speaker B: It definitely is. And it makes me so sad because, like, during COVID you know, like, TikTok blew up or whatever, and I love watching people dance, so, like, I liked a lot of those. The dancers that were on there never knew anything was up. You know, like, some. Actually, some of my favorite ones were on there. And I was like, you were in a cult? Like, you just. You didn't get those vibes. So, I mean, whatever he did, he did a good job.
[00:07:26] Speaker C: So, like, the whole dancing part isn't the part that bothers me. You know what I mean? Like, him.
[00:07:31] Speaker B: Yeah.
[00:07:32] Speaker C: Him using these people to manipulate their mind to join the cult, to make money doesn't really hit me as hard. Yes, it does hit me because it is fucked up.
[00:07:44] Speaker B: Right.
[00:07:44] Speaker C: But it doesn't hit me as hard as the people that were sexually assaulted by him and his wives.
[00:07:51] Speaker B: Yes.
[00:07:52] Speaker C: And how he distastes their feelings and blames the victim.
[00:07:56] Speaker B: Yes.
[00:07:57] Speaker C: That's the part that really hit with me. And then the two sisters. Not. Not the sisters that are separated, but the two that have been reunited.
[00:08:07] Speaker B: Yes. I don't remember their names, but, yes, I do remember who you're talking about.
[00:08:11] Speaker A: Yeah.
[00:08:11] Speaker C: It was so hard to watch that relationship try to become something again. And. Yeah, it was so hard to. Try not to cry or get upset when she's sitting there and she says something about the kidde.
[00:08:27] Speaker B: Right? Yes.
[00:08:29] Speaker C: I might not be able to have kids. Like, it's so true.
[00:08:32] Speaker B: Mm hmm.
[00:08:33] Speaker C: I know her sister didn't think about it because she has it, and her, you know, she might not ever have it.
[00:08:40] Speaker B: No. And she. I think she was just thinking her sister was being selfish. Like, you said you were going to come help, and then you're late to your nephew's birthday party. You know what I mean? So I did, and I understood that side. But then when she said, I don't even. Like, it's like she kind of was saying, I don't even know how to act like a human.
[00:08:56] Speaker C: Well, yeah, that's. That's. That is what she was saying. In many words.
[00:08:59] Speaker B: Yeah.
[00:08:59] Speaker C: Was. I don't. I don't know how to be outside of Shekinah.
[00:09:04] Speaker B: Right.
[00:09:05] Speaker C: That is a very telling thing that she's saying is, I don't know how to love. I don't know how to be a sister, I don't know how to be an aunt, and I don't know if I will ever get the chance to be a mother. So right now. And right now, I don't know how to be a mother.
[00:09:21] Speaker B: Yeah. Yeah. They were, like, abandoned by their parents. Their dad wasn't involved, and their mom was alcoholic. So it's like, they were raised by.
[00:09:29] Speaker C: That church, and they got sucked in, and then, like. So he, like, started to, like, trade the girls and, like, shin is just. He needs to be kicked in the shin. That's what needs to happen.
[00:09:41] Speaker B: Yeah. Actually kick him in the nuts.
[00:09:44] Speaker C: It. It made me, like. It made me sad, but it also made me mad. So it was kind of like that push and pull for me.
[00:09:50] Speaker B: Yeah, I know.
[00:09:51] Speaker C: But the thing that was really, like, like, really hit, too, was the $98,700 that he took from one dancer.
[00:10:00] Speaker B: Yes. And he did that to, like, all of them.
[00:10:02] Speaker C: All of them.
[00:10:03] Speaker B: Yeah. They didn't get to keep their money. Like, he somehow made it. Where it goes to this part of the charge. It goes to this. It goes to that, you know, like, and then before they know it, they don't have any money.
[00:10:15] Speaker C: So where do you think, in your honest opinion, where do you think this story is going to continue to go? Do you think they're going to have justice, or do you think that seven m is still going to be a thing in the next five years?
[00:10:27] Speaker B: I think that even though it was a documentary, it brought light to it. I feel like the fact that he's still out there doing this, I don't feel like anything's going to change. I feel like all they're going off of is, like, the people that have reported him the word, and for some reason, that's not enough. That's the only crime.
[00:10:47] Speaker C: They also said. They also said that that would not be enough. Like, they need to catch hard, concrete evidence from him in order to convict him. And that's how our justice system works.
[00:11:00] Speaker B: And that is such bull crap.
[00:11:02] Speaker C: Well, it is a bull crap on bull. Crap on the justice system.
[00:11:06] Speaker B: Yes.
[00:11:07] Speaker A: Facts.
[00:11:07] Speaker C: Yeah.
[00:11:08] Speaker B: Yeah. Like, it's these poor women. Like, they finally get the nerve to report him, and I understand, like, okay, maybe you can't take one or two reports. You need more reports. But, like, all. I don't know how many people went to them and reported him, but it's like, that's not enough. Like, you can't do anything.
[00:11:25] Speaker C: Yeah.
[00:11:26] Speaker B: I feel like criminals have more rights than victims, and it's just crazy.
[00:11:30] Speaker C: And then now, like, that, the documentary has come out. You know, you have the cast members that are releasing statements that they're not in a cult, and nothing bad's going on, and they were estranged from their family for this, and they have spun this narrative that he has made them believe. And it's like, you can't. When three people are saying that that is not how it happens, and one person is saying, no, this is how I saw it.
[00:11:56] Speaker B: Right.
[00:11:57] Speaker C: You can't.
[00:11:58] Speaker B: Right.
[00:11:58] Speaker C: You can't. In my mind, I can't relate. You know what I mean?
[00:12:01] Speaker A: Like, no, no.
[00:12:03] Speaker C: Typically gonna have one person on your side, like, her sister would be on.
[00:12:06] Speaker A: Her side if that's how it happens.
[00:12:08] Speaker B: Right.
[00:12:09] Speaker C: With her parents. And she's not. She's saying that that's not how it happens. And, like, she even said, like, I miss my sister. If you had a problem with your sister, you wouldn't say, I miss my sister.
[00:12:21] Speaker B: No. Oh, no. I 100% believe the families. Like, look at all the families they had on there.
[00:12:27] Speaker C: A lot.
[00:12:27] Speaker B: Yeah. So I. And why would people leave and then say, like, make up all these lies? It just doesn't make any sense.
[00:12:34] Speaker C: No, it doesn't make any sense at all.
[00:12:36] Speaker B: And some of them, like, aren't even, like, all the dancers are kind of together, but then, like, the sisters, they're no part of the dancers. You know what I mean? So why would all these people come forward and lie? It just doesn't make sense to me.
[00:12:47] Speaker A: Yeah.
[00:12:47] Speaker C: I don't understand why they would come forward and lie. Like, there's a lot of people. And so, like. But the thing is, just, like, being a caw is not illegal, but the actions and the laws that cults break is illegal.
[00:13:01] Speaker B: Right?
Yeah. I'm not even talking about the cult thing. I'm talking about, like, the sexual assault. I mean, even the money thing. Okay, fine. You can't prove it. Whatever. Yeah, but the sexual stuff, at some point, like, someone's words gotta be enough if you have enough people. That's. It's just not fair.
[00:13:17] Speaker C: No, it's not. And I don't think that the justice. Justice system is fair either. Like, there's a lot of loopholes. There's a lot of things that keep it from like. Like, look at. So this is the thing. Like, there's cases going on now, and, like, we can get more into this because I love, like, true crime and shit like that, and there's cases going on right now that's like. It's like, double double jeopardy is not a thing with this whole situation. It's fucked up because people are very much trying to do their best to try to get this. The people in there saved, but it's just. It's a lot harder than people realize that it is. Is there any other thoughts that you have on the documentary dancing for the devil, the seven M TikTok cult?
[00:14:01] Speaker B: Um, no, I don't think so. That was pretty much what it was all about.
[00:14:06] Speaker C: Now, granted, to me, my final thought would be, is there's one thing that I do agree with that the crazy people have said is that they did this documentary for the fans, meaning they wanted to gain traction, they wanted to gain attention, and they wanted to create more views and things for their profiles. I almost think that that's him telling on himself. And he was the one that convinced these people to do this documentary. Cause think about it.
[00:14:37] Speaker B: That's very interesting.
[00:14:38] Speaker C: Cause if you think about it, he could have told the parents, you're gonna do this documentary, and then I'll let you have your kid back.
[00:14:45] Speaker B: That's true. Oh, that would be sickening.
[00:14:47] Speaker C: And then the people that quote unquote left.
[00:14:50] Speaker B: Yeah.
[00:14:51] Speaker C: Like, I don't know. It just seemed fishy how they just left, because, like, they have a lot of information on him, so why would he just let him leave?
[00:14:58] Speaker B: Well, I think they weren't held prisoner. I think it was more a brainwashing thing. And then once they realized what was happening, they got out. And since they kind of did have a bond, being the dancers, they could group together. I think that was the difference.
[00:15:13] Speaker C: Oh, okay.
[00:15:13] Speaker B: They had each other. That's how I took it, at least. And the ones that stayed, it's because they were still brainwashed. Cause it does happen.
[00:15:22] Speaker C: Oh, yeah, it definitely does happen.
[00:15:23] Speaker B: Yeah, that's how I took it. I think that they more got out because they were able to group together.
[00:15:28] Speaker C: That is an interesting way to look at it.
[00:15:30] Speaker B: They had each other.
[00:15:31] Speaker C: Yeah.
[00:15:32] Speaker B: Cause not a lot of other people. They didn't interview other people. I mean, I'm sure there's other people that got out, but, like, I bet you it was harder for them. Cause it was just them.
[00:15:41] Speaker C: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I get that. Okay.
[00:15:43] Speaker B: Like, even the sisters, like, yeah, she tried to get her sister out, but she said no. Yeah, she was happy. You know, she wasn't happy, but you know what I mean?
[00:15:51] Speaker C: In her mind, she's happy.
[00:15:52] Speaker B: That's the difference to me.
[00:15:53] Speaker C: I can see that. I can definitely see that. That's now streaming on Netflix, so you can go there and watch it.
[00:15:59] Speaker B: And it's only three episodes. It goes. It's about an hour each episode, but it goes fast.
[00:16:05] Speaker A: Yeah.
[00:16:05] Speaker C: And join the Facebook page to give us your thoughts and opinions on it and let us know what you think after listening to this episode.
[00:16:15] Speaker A: This is always be a big deal podcast with Clay Phoenix and Jessica vendetta.
[00:16:23] Speaker C: Questions that people think are stupid. But are they really stupid? So why do restaurant hosts always get slightly annoyed when I tell them I'd rather have a booth?
It's so true.
[00:16:37] Speaker B: Why is that the realest thing I've heard all day?
[00:16:40] Speaker C: That is so true.
[00:16:42] Speaker A: So true.
[00:16:47] Speaker B: I.
I don't know, but that is so flippin true.
[00:16:52] Speaker C: Yeah, it is really true.
[00:16:54] Speaker B: They always are. Just like, are you sure you want to poo a booth? Yeah. And I feel like there's just as many booths as tables, if not more.
[00:17:02] Speaker C: And then they get to the booth, and they're like, are you sure you.
[00:17:05] Speaker A: Want to sit here?
[00:17:06] Speaker B: Yes. That is so true.
[00:17:09] Speaker C: Very true. I don't know the answer to that one. I can't answer it, but it's very true.
[00:17:12] Speaker B: That's a good one, though.
[00:17:16] Speaker C: What the hell is gooning?
[00:17:17] Speaker B: Gooning?
[00:17:18] Speaker C: Yeah.
[00:17:19] Speaker B: I don't know. Is it, like, forking?
That just sounds, like, slimy. You know what? I bet you that is? I bet you that is people that doesn't shower and they have smelly balls.
[00:17:38] Speaker C: No.
[00:17:42] Speaker B: Is that what it is?
[00:17:44] Speaker C: No, but it's close to the balls. It's linked to the balls, but it's.
[00:17:50] Speaker B: Not smelly balls, is it when you grope the balls?
[00:17:53] Speaker C: No. So it's where you actually masturbate until you're about ready to come, but you don't.
[00:17:59] Speaker A: So it's like edging.
[00:18:01] Speaker C: It's like edging, but you do it multiple times over.
[00:18:04] Speaker B: Why?
[00:18:05] Speaker C: I don't know. Don't. Don't ask me. Ask the men that do it.
[00:18:08] Speaker B: That sounds like torture.
[00:18:09] Speaker C: Well, I guess it's sexual torture. Like, they like it because it's like sexual torture. I don't know. I'm very. Oh, honey, I'm very vanilla.
[00:18:17] Speaker B: So they found a way. They found a way to, like, be the dom in the sub together.
[00:18:23] Speaker A: Yes.
[00:18:24] Speaker C: Yes.
[00:18:24] Speaker A: Yes.
[00:18:25] Speaker B: It was freaking mad. And they figure out everything.
[00:18:28] Speaker C: That's cause they're idiots.
[00:18:29] Speaker B: Pretty much.
[00:18:32] Speaker C: And most of the guys that are gooning are probably not with people.
[00:18:36] Speaker A: You know what I mean?
[00:18:36] Speaker B: Like, probably not.
[00:18:38] Speaker C: They really didn't get that card.
[00:18:40] Speaker B: They're probably wearing. They're pro. You know what? No, this is what it is. Their wives wear t shirts that say, we're taking the rainbow back facts.
[00:18:48] Speaker C: Yeah.
[00:18:52] Speaker B: Do they feel like, you have to torture those?
All right, now I know what gooning is. And I'm gonna think of the little, short, roly poly man with the wife that doesn't brush her hair and wears rainbow shirts.
[00:19:10] Speaker C: So the actual definition. Okay, so it's Internet slang, a form of masturbation that involves edging. Edging is maintaining sexual arousal without reaching orgasm for a long period of time, resulting in a hypnotic, trance like state.
[00:19:29] Speaker B: I don't get it, man. I wish I had a dick so I could try it. Where do I get one of those? What?
[00:19:34] Speaker C: A dick.
[00:19:35] Speaker B: Yeah. Do you think Jessica Michael should sell those?
[00:19:38] Speaker C: Oh, yeah. Jessica Michaels.
Jessica Michaels. Where you can get anything that makes you feel like the best.
[00:19:52] Speaker B: Goon.
What a weird word. I'm gonna actually have to look that up.
[00:20:00] Speaker C: So this is. This is it used in a set.
[00:20:03] Speaker B: Oh, my God. Are you serious right now?
[00:20:06] Speaker C: Like, okay, okay. So Gooner. Gooner is it is almost always, but doesn't need to be paired with porn or surrounds itself with porn. It is also known as baiting. Oh, it's also known as baiting. I was gooning for several hours last night. I'm such a baiter.
[00:20:28] Speaker B: If anyone ever says that sentence, I will just walk away from them.
[00:20:31] Speaker C: Oh, my God. Yes. Look at you serving cunt. You are such a gooner.
[00:20:35] Speaker B: Yes.
[00:20:36] Speaker C: Dude, I'm sorry. I didn't know you were jacking off. I'm not just jacking off, bro. I'm fucking gooning on this dick.
I love gooning. You are a weirdo. You should be going to jail.
[00:20:58] Speaker B: That's the. Probably the best one.
[00:21:03] Speaker C: Yo, you going to the gym today? Yeah, bro. We'd be gooding hardcore today.
[00:21:08] Speaker B: Oh, my gosh. Ew.
[00:21:11] Speaker C: Oh, so I don't. Okay, so there's multiple meanings to it. So this meaning is the act of working out at the gym to try and get buff.
[00:21:19] Speaker B: I don't like this word.
[00:21:21] Speaker C: So. Okay, okay. So since when is there afag life.com?
[00:21:27] Speaker B: Oh, no.
[00:21:28] Speaker C: But anyways, urban dictionary tells you everything, so if you ever need to know the slang.
[00:21:33] Speaker B: I'm so bad at slang.
[00:21:34] Speaker C: Definitely good urban dictionary. Oh, it's real goon. Oh, no. It's called I'll send it to you because I don't want to say the word on the pod.
[00:21:43] Speaker B: Okay.
[00:21:43] Speaker C: Because it's. It's a very offensive word for. Oh, people like me.
[00:21:48] Speaker B: Okay. Oh, I don't like that word.
[00:21:50] Speaker C: I mean, technically, I could say it if I wanted to.
[00:21:52] Speaker A: I just.
[00:21:53] Speaker C: I'm not.
[00:21:53] Speaker B: Yeah, right? I hate that word.
[00:21:56] Speaker C: I'm already in enough trouble for speaking my mind.
[00:21:59] Speaker B: Yes, let's. Let's keep. Let's park our mouths, Clay.
[00:22:03] Speaker C: Yes, let's park our mouths.
How would you prefer someone turn you down after a few dates?
[00:22:12] Speaker B: Turn me down after the first one? Because I don't want to waste my time.
[00:22:15] Speaker C: Yeah.
[00:22:16] Speaker B: Or actually, I'm trying to think. It's not.
[00:22:20] Speaker C: I would just want them to turn me down. Like, I would just want them. Them telling me that they don't want anything to do with me is saving my time, so. Save my time?
[00:22:28] Speaker B: Yes. It's never happened to me, so I. I think I would be pretty mad if I wasted my time, though, to be honest with you.
[00:22:34] Speaker C: Yeah. Yeah. But I feel like if you, like, you are dating somebody, like, let's say you are on the third date, and after the third date, like, the guy or the gal is like, I'm really not that into you. Like, I'm getting friendship vibes, and they put you in the friend zone. That's better after a third date because you didn't waste as much time. You can find somebody else and see if you connect better with them.
[00:22:59] Speaker B: Right? Yeah, that's true. And at least they put in good effort.
[00:23:03] Speaker C: Yes.
[00:23:04] Speaker B: Yeah.
[00:23:06] Speaker C: But.
[00:23:06] Speaker A: Yes.
[00:23:06] Speaker C: I would definitely be madden as hell if they wasted my time.
[00:23:11] Speaker B: Yeah. But it's always the way it goes. There's always one that's into it and then one that's not. I swear.
[00:23:18] Speaker C: True.
[00:23:18] Speaker B: I don't even know relationship. I feel like that's how it is a lot.
[00:23:22] Speaker C: Very true.
[00:23:23] Speaker B: Yeah.
I use my gps for pretty much everything except for, like, work. There's some places, of course, I know how to get to, but I'd rather be safe than sorry.
[00:23:35] Speaker A: Yeah. I'm just really bad with directions.
[00:23:37] Speaker B: Me too.
[00:23:38] Speaker A: It took me, like, three or four times before, like, going out to the lodge, before I actually got actual, like, what is it called? Like, actual, like, way to go. Like, the actual directions?
[00:23:52] Speaker B: Yeah. Like.
[00:23:53] Speaker A: Yeah, like, the actual route down until I was able to go by myself without the gyps. So it was like. It was. It was a learning curve for being down here. I'm from Pa, so, like, all those roads, I know, like, I can drive up in Pa, and just like, david can drive down here in Maryland. He's completely lost. And when we went up there to, like, Lancaster, and I'm like, oh, okay. Like, you just go this way and that way and this way, and he's like, really? How do you know that? And I'm like, because I'm from here. Like, I've driven all these roads. It's just like you and him in Maryland. Like, he knows all the roads, and he. He knows all the back roads. I know all the back roads in pa.
[00:24:30] Speaker B: Right. True that.
[00:24:31] Speaker A: So our top ten. These are the top ten things that we cannot live without. You go first, Jessica.
[00:24:38] Speaker B: All right, let's see here. The first thing on my list is my cellphone.
[00:24:44] Speaker A: Why did you pick your cell phone?
[00:24:49] Speaker B: I hate that. I'm going first, by the way, my cell phone, because I want to be able to stay in touch with people, and we can't pick people, so I picked cell phones.
[00:24:58] Speaker A: I can see that. I can see that.
[00:25:00] Speaker B: Yeah.
[00:25:01] Speaker A: Just so you know, I suspected that I know you really well, and I know that you really like to talk to people, and I said you couldn't pick people. So I was like, she's totally gonna pick social media or her cell phone just for that fact.
[00:25:17] Speaker B: I have to stay in touch with people. I can't.
[00:25:19] Speaker A: So the first item on my list is dude wipes.
[00:25:22] Speaker B: Oh, my go.
[00:25:26] Speaker A: What? I can't live without them.
[00:25:28] Speaker B: All right, this is gonna bring us back to the shower thing.
Is this for when you skip showers? Clay?
[00:25:35] Speaker A: No, this is. Okay. So, I know this is a little bit too much information, but I'm a bottom, so.
Oh, my God.
[00:25:44] Speaker B: I did not think you were going there. Go ahead.
[00:25:46] Speaker A: So, like, I like to be clean and, like, I don't like to walk around and, like, smell myself. Like, I am the type of person that can smell myself. Like, I wear. If I don't have deodorant on, I will literally stop at a store and buy a stick just to put it on because I can smell myself.
[00:26:04] Speaker B: I feel that.
[00:26:05] Speaker A: Yeah. I am paranoid to stink.
[00:26:07] Speaker B: Yes.
[00:26:08] Speaker A: I am so bad with body odor. Like, I don't like body odor. I don't. This literally goes back to when I was a child, because I had a person that was close to the family that didn't wear deodorant at all and always stunk. And plus, like, growing up in Pennsylvania, there's a lot of Amish.
[00:26:29] Speaker B: Yes.
[00:26:30] Speaker A: So I really, like, became accustomed to deodorant, and it used to start with the flushable wipes. The charmin flushable wipes.
[00:26:38] Speaker B: Yeah.
[00:26:39] Speaker A: But when they brought out dude wipes, they just, like, make my tushy feel so good. So, yeah, I can't live without those. Especially the mint ones. Not the original. The mint ones have, like, a little sweet little tingle to it, so it makes my whole feel really nice.
[00:26:55] Speaker B: Can I tell you something funny about that?
[00:26:57] Speaker A: What?
[00:26:57] Speaker B: I recently purchased those wipes. They are the Walmart brand.
[00:27:01] Speaker A: Uh huh.
[00:27:02] Speaker B: But mint. I was like, okay, what's mint? I just have them for, like, because it's summertime. Boobs, sweat, stuff like that. If I just don't really feel like I need to jump in the shower, but, like, I just want to rinse up or whatever. And the mint is definitely a little tingly. It's like you get a little something out of it. Charmin doesn't do that.
[00:27:19] Speaker A: Uh uh, uh.
[00:27:22] Speaker B: Yes. Okay.
[00:27:23] Speaker A: You gotta have that little mint feeling, because that's how you know it's clean. It's just like toothpaste.
[00:27:27] Speaker B: I agree with you. Oh, my gosh. I said the same thing.
It's like toothpaste for your butt.
That's how you clean.
[00:27:38] Speaker A: It's like brushing your hole with a toothbrush, but it's like a soft little rag.
[00:27:44] Speaker B: I see new products in our future.
[00:27:47] Speaker A: Look out, shark tank, here we come.
[00:27:51] Speaker B: All right, my next item on my list is. You'll be shocked by. This is friends, the tv show.
[00:27:57] Speaker A: Oh, my God.
[00:27:58] Speaker B: I cannot about that. When I'm sad, mad happy, that show puts me in a good mood. It doesn't matter.
[00:28:07] Speaker A: You know, that's interesting because I have one of those shows, too.
[00:28:10] Speaker B: Okay.
[00:28:11] Speaker A: It's not on my list because I didn't think of that.
[00:28:13] Speaker B: Okay.
[00:28:14] Speaker A: But that's actually a really good item to have on your list, and I can agree with that. That there is that one tv show. It's actually mine is one Tree hill.
[00:28:22] Speaker B: Okay.
[00:28:23] Speaker A: So I grew up with that show. It really helped me through a lot of dark times, and it also. It inspired me a lot.
[00:28:31] Speaker B: Okay, that's fair.
[00:28:33] Speaker A: So, in the show, Peyton has a podcast.
[00:28:36] Speaker B: Yes.
[00:28:37] Speaker A: I have a podcast.
[00:28:38] Speaker B: Mm hmm.
[00:28:39] Speaker A: She. Her name's Peyton Sawyer, and she ends up naming her daughter Sawyer after her maiden last name.
[00:28:45] Speaker B: Yes.
[00:28:46] Speaker A: And I said if I had a boy, I would name him Miller after my maiden last name.
[00:28:51] Speaker B: Okay.
[00:28:51] Speaker A: Just like, there's kinds of things that, like, relate. Plus, the story's really good, and I love that storyline all. The whole entire story. Even. Even though there was a lot of stuff that happened, like, behind the scenes. One tree hill will always be my favorite show.
[00:29:06] Speaker B: That's fair. Just like friends.
Not a lot of bad stuff came out about it, but a few things that I'll never change my mind about it. Yeah, I love it. I get it.
[00:29:14] Speaker A: So my number two is allergy meds.
[00:29:20] Speaker B: Okay. I mean, we don't want you all red and sniffly, so that's good.
[00:29:26] Speaker A: So if I don't take my allergy meds, I don't sleep well.
[00:29:29] Speaker B: Oh, yeah, no need your sleep because you cranky.
[00:29:32] Speaker A: Uh huh. So I suffer from sleep apnea, and over the years, there's been things that I've done that has improved that taking an allergy med every single day has improved that I don't snore as much because I take it. Oh, and I also don't snore as much because I don't drink. The last time that I had a drink was probably maybe two months ago.
[00:29:56] Speaker B: Okay, that helped.
[00:29:57] Speaker A: Yeah.
[00:29:58] Speaker B: Okay.
[00:29:59] Speaker A: And then also, I don't. I don't smoke as much anymore.
[00:30:02] Speaker B: Oh, klay, I am so proud of you. That is amazing.
[00:30:06] Speaker A: I don't even buy cigarettes. Like, I have a vape. I have a craving. Then I'll hit the vape. It's not like I fiend for it anymore.
[00:30:13] Speaker B: Okay. Look at you, improving your health. I'm so proud of you. That is amazing.
[00:30:18] Speaker A: I know. I'm becoming a health nut, girly.
The next thing I'm going to do is I'm going to start eating plant based.
[00:30:27] Speaker B: I don't think I could do that now. If someone served it to me and then told me after it was plant based, I'd be fine, but the whole time, I would just think it's of food. My next item, and this is the only food item I have on my list, is ice cream.
[00:30:42] Speaker A: Really?
[00:30:43] Speaker B: Because who doesn't love ice cream? Yes.
[00:30:46] Speaker A: Me.
[00:30:46] Speaker B: Oh, my God. Why? Why don't you like ice cream?
[00:30:51] Speaker A: Because it gives me diarrhea.
[00:30:52] Speaker B: Okay? There's meds for that. You're missing out.
[00:30:54] Speaker A: Okay? And I get that, and I understand, but I actually am, like, obsessed with ritas.
[00:31:01] Speaker B: Okay, so you like italian ice stuff?
[00:31:03] Speaker A: Yeah.
[00:31:04] Speaker B: Okay.
[00:31:04] Speaker A: And gelato. Like, dairy free gelato.
I love it. Like, David will get me. David will get me those pints of talent.
[00:31:15] Speaker B: Okay, well, they're so good. Mm hmm. Yeah, I know what you're talking about. Yeah.
[00:31:20] Speaker A: Yeah. So that's.
[00:31:21] Speaker B: That's ice cream, though. I'll take it.
[00:31:24] Speaker A: Yeah, that's my icy goodness treat. My number three is my toothbrush.
[00:31:29] Speaker B: Oh, gosh I'm thinking of places you put that toothbrush now.
[00:31:34] Speaker A: So, fun fact, and my husband will attest for this, I need to get a new one because I just had to throw it out. I have a shower toothbrush, and then I have a counter toothbrush.
[00:31:44] Speaker B: Okay?
[00:31:45] Speaker A: So when I take a shower, I clean my mouth as well.
[00:31:51] Speaker B: Or you could take a shower and get out and clean your mouth.
[00:31:54] Speaker A: Okay, but this is the thing. I feel like when I step out of the shower and my mouth is still dirty, I don't feel 100% clean. So since I'm already cleaning my entire body, why not clean my mouth in the shower?
[00:32:06] Speaker B: Oh, my gosh. I have a whole new respect for David.
How does he deal with you?
You are so high maintenance.
[00:32:17] Speaker A: I mean, I'm also the guy that takes a shower just because I'm upset.
[00:32:20] Speaker B: Oh, God.
So hygiene is super important to you?
[00:32:27] Speaker A: It is, and it's. And it's just because that's the one thing that I had control of when I was growing up.
I could control my hygiene, okay. My parents couldn't control that.
[00:32:41] Speaker B: Oh, my gosh.
[00:32:42] Speaker A: Everything else they could control. So as an adult, my hygiene is still that one thing that I can. So, for instance, money has always been a big anxiety of mine.
[00:32:52] Speaker B: Yes.
[00:32:53] Speaker A: I feel that in relationships, outside of relationships, it's always been a very big anxiety, and that's because a lot of times, money was what I was held to, okay? Whether it was growing up or whether it was in my marriage with my ex wife.
[00:33:08] Speaker B: Mm hmm.
[00:33:09] Speaker A: It was always money related. Like, there was a money, monetary value to the things that I was held to, the standards I was held to, okay? It was, you're not paying this. You're not paying that. Once you start paying the bills under the roof of my house, then you can make the decisions. So all of those things, like, kind of equated in, I struggle with controlling money, okay? And I'm a lot better with it now, and David's helped me a lot with it, and I have more structure with it now, okay? But I still have those moments where, like, David's like, okay, let's make this decision. We have to pay these bills. And I'm like, we can't do it that way. Can't do it that way, because, you know, we're not going to have enough money for this, that, and the third. And then on top of that, I also could never control my food consumption when I was a we kid. And that's why now I over order. I go to, yes, you do. I do. I go to the grocery store, and I over buy.
[00:34:11] Speaker B: Yeah.
[00:34:12] Speaker A: And it's all because I have a fear that I am going to starve. Alyssa's gonna starve, and David's gonna starve. And.
[00:34:19] Speaker B: Okay.
[00:34:19] Speaker A: That's just from growing up with, like, not. Not in my. I wouldn't say from, like, seven. Six. Seven on that. I have these problems, but, like, underneath of six. So they kind of came up later where I was feeling them. You know what I mean? Like, the trauma was there.
[00:34:36] Speaker B: Yeah. Right.
[00:34:37] Speaker A: And, you know, it still had an impact just because, like, there was barely anything, and, like, there was times when I wasn't eating. That is where that comes from. Psychologically, that's where it's come. It's coming from.
[00:34:49] Speaker B: Okay. And I have the opposite effect. So, when I was growing up, we. We did not have a lot of money, but my mom made sure that we never went hungry. We might not have had the most glamorous meals, but, I mean, we definitely never went hungry. But on the other end of that, she. The way she showed us love and rewarded us, in my opinion, is she made us desserts. She bought us, like, when she. So we were on welfare, when she would get money, like, at the beginning of the month, me and my sister would walk to McDonald's, and our treat was we would get a meal. And by a meal, I mean a 20 piece nugget each, a sandwich, a large fry, and a coke. And then we did that once and then spent $50, and she only had 200. So, I mean, she was really bad with money, but that's how she showed us love.
[00:35:48] Speaker A: Yeah.
[00:35:49] Speaker B: So, as an adult, I found myself rewarding myself that way and didn't realize it till one day, I don't know, just clicked. I was like, why do I do this to myself? Like, I'll just eat a bunch of cake or something like that. But that's what, like, kind of started my weight loss journey, even though I still have a long ways to go, is I'm like, I don't want to do this anymore because I was. I was miserable the way I was. But it's just funny how, like, things happen to you. Like, when you are a child, you don't realize how it's going to affect you for, like, the rest of your life unless you do something to change it.
[00:36:18] Speaker A: Yes, it is very interesting, too. And, like, I want to talk to a psychologist. Like, when I have the opportunity to get a psychologist on the podcast to talk about childhood trauma, I am totally going to do it, because I find things so interesting from, like, you and I talking about things from David and I talking about things that we never realized.
[00:36:38] Speaker B: Yes.
[00:36:39] Speaker A: We do these things because we were conditioned to do these things. And I don't even think that, like, I'm not saying my parents did anything wrong. I'm not saying his parents did. Your parents did.
[00:36:49] Speaker B: Right. Right.
[00:36:50] Speaker A: But at the same time, that's where it comes from. You start learning things from the time you were born until the time that you die.
[00:36:58] Speaker B: Yes.
[00:36:59] Speaker A: You are always learning something, and that shapes you throughout the years of you living.
[00:37:04] Speaker B: Yeah.
[00:37:04] Speaker A: My main thing is, like, with food, I used to overeat, too.
[00:37:09] Speaker B: Yeah.
[00:37:10] Speaker A: And David brings up to me a lot. Like, I eat fasten. And those are all things that my psychologist has said is linked to these things that happened when I was younger, that my brain is now conditioned to do those things.
[00:37:27] Speaker B: Right.
[00:37:27] Speaker A: And on top of it, I actually learned fun fact from doing research about gut health that your gut, if it's unhealthy, will actually cause you to have those mental things as well.
[00:37:43] Speaker B: Oh, really?
[00:37:43] Speaker A: Yeah. So if your gut is unhealthy and, like, let's say you have problems with acid reflux, your gut will tell your brain that you want to eat something that will cause acid reflux.
[00:37:58] Speaker B: How?
[00:37:59] Speaker A: Because it's. It's unhealthy. So, like, those are the kinds of things that I want to, like, dig into more because I think it's very interesting.
[00:38:07] Speaker B: My number four is music.
Music makes me happy. I like mostly I like pretty much all music, to be honest with you. I'm not a big, like, heavy metal type person, but I like, oh, I am. They just like bring back, like, the eighties can bring back memories. Like with my mom, my sister, some friends. Nineties is more like when I was growing up and I was a teen mom in the nineties and then going. So I absolutely love music. My favorite all time song, not that anyone asked, is Wilson Phillips. Hold on. I don't know why I've always been obsessed with that song. And my favorite singer is Madonna.
[00:38:48] Speaker A: Oh, cool.
[00:38:49] Speaker B: Yes. Because I wish I was her when I was a kid.
[00:38:52] Speaker A: Not necessarily anymore, but so, fun fact, I love music, too. I did not put it on my top ten things that I can live without.
I definitely am a big music person just because it's just been one of the things that I could always rely on throughout life. And my favorite group is Fallout boy.
[00:39:17] Speaker B: Okay.
[00:39:18] Speaker A: And when I was growing up, it was good charlotte. So it kind of tracks why Fallout boy is my favorite as an adult.
[00:39:23] Speaker B: Okay, so that's the type of music you like?
[00:39:27] Speaker A: I like all music, actually. So, like, I am the type of person that when I make a playlist, it could start with a country song and can go into some hardcore rap.
[00:39:37] Speaker B: Okay. I totally understand that. So I have, like, a. My favorite songs ever. My friend actually had one. I was like, that is such a good idea. But, like, it goes from country to rap to Madonna. Like, but I. That's my favorite playlist. That's the one I listen to the most.
[00:39:54] Speaker A: So our next top ten should be our top ten favorite songs of all time.
[00:39:58] Speaker B: Yes. I love that.
[00:40:00] Speaker A: I love that, too.
[00:40:01] Speaker B: Yeah, that's a good one.
[00:40:02] Speaker A: My number four is shorts. So I will wear shorts in the winter. I will wear shorts in the summer. I love to wear shorts. And actually, so until I got with David and we had a child, I used to never wear underwear under shorts.
[00:40:21] Speaker B: Oof.
[00:40:22] Speaker A: I used to.
[00:40:23] Speaker B: I'm surprised.
[00:40:24] Speaker A: The hygiene thing, I used to just because the underwear, like, feel tight and it feels like it makes it sweat more.
[00:40:31] Speaker B: Okay. Oh, okay. That actually makes sense.
[00:40:33] Speaker A: So I was more breezy and it was more comfy, but. Because.
[00:40:37] Speaker B: Weren't you scared it was gonna sneak out?
[00:40:39] Speaker A: No, no. Like, it's just because, like, I mean, I live primarily by myself. Like, I had a roommate, but he was never there because he was working and, like, our schedules were different. So, like, there was times where I even walked around the house naked.
[00:40:52] Speaker B: Okay.
[00:40:53] Speaker A: Just because I forgot a towel or something. You know what I mean? Like, I just didn't care as much when I was by myself.
[00:40:58] Speaker B: Okay.
[00:40:59] Speaker A: You know, I didn't have, like, that family aspect where I had to worry about my daughter walking in and seeing me naked. Do you know what I mean?
[00:41:06] Speaker B: Yes, I do.
[00:41:07] Speaker A: Like, I used. And when I first got with David, like, it was still something that I was very accustomed to. And, like, he was like, clay, like, you gotta, like, put some underwear on.
[00:41:17] Speaker B: Yeah.
[00:41:17] Speaker A: And I'm like, why? And he's like, because we can see it all moving and all that kind of stuff. It's not something that you should be broadcasting when the kid's around. And I'm like, oh. Cause, like, I. You know what I mean? It was a learning curve.
[00:41:34] Speaker B: But, yeah, no, I weren't used to that, so I get that.
[00:41:37] Speaker A: Yeah. So my way around it was, is I bought some boxers.
[00:41:40] Speaker B: Good for you. Look at you. So I'm so proud of.
[00:41:44] Speaker A: So now I'm just breezy, but I'm still wearing underwear.
[00:41:49] Speaker B: Yes. That's good. All right. My number five is the beach.
[00:41:54] Speaker A: Oh, the beach.
[00:41:55] Speaker B: The beach is just. I could seriously sit there all day and all night. I had never done that. But I just. Listening to the water, doing absolutely nothing. It's just ever since I was a kid, my aunt used to the beach all the time, by the way, with a new. But don't worry, me and my sister never were nude, just everyone else was. So we got to see naked people when we were younger. Had no idea what any of it was. But ever since then, that is just my happy place. The nude beach and not the nude beach.
I will say me and my sister went as adults. We were like, let's just. We went with my aunt. So there's a nude side and a closed side. Yeah, we stayed on the clothes side was on the nude side and we were together still, but we just. And like, my aunt came over to visit us. She had clothes on and there were. And it was super busy that day and there were tons of new people over there. She was so upset. She was like, this is the clothes side. Like, it was just so funny. And she's not like a mean or angry person, but she was, like, upset because they were breaking the rules.
Yeah, but as an adult, me and my sister were just like, how did he do this as kids? And we loved it and everyone loved us. We were like this of attention, which everyone knows I love that.
[00:43:06] Speaker A: So it was a completely different time back then. Like, there was like, not as much of the perverse things that we have now in our world.
[00:43:14] Speaker B: Yeah.
[00:43:15] Speaker A: Where it was like kids were kids and kids were going to be kids and you don't, you don't try to mess with that. Right now we have all of these people out here that are messing with that, and we have parents that are scared to even let their kids go outside and play. And, you know, that's why we now have keyboard warriors and TikTok creators and stuff like that, that are so young because, you know.
[00:43:39] Speaker B: Right.
[00:43:39] Speaker A: What else, what else are you going to do if you can't go outside and play because your parents are scared that you're going to get hurt or somebody's going to take you? Like, what else are you going to do other than create content on the Internet?
[00:43:50] Speaker B: Yeah. Which is funny because that all kind of ties together. So you're on the Internet, if you're on certain apps, certain age, you can still have creepers, like, message you. Like, I feel like as a parent, which my kids are all grown, but, like, even when my kids were younger, like, I was always scared that my kids were gonna, like, meet someone online and then. Cause they can message through Snapchat. They can message anywhere. And I was constantly catching my daughter, my oldest, like, talking to strangers. And I would say, why are you talking to this person? Like, and she.
[00:44:19] Speaker A: Cause she's just like her mom, but.
[00:44:21] Speaker B: Not in a creepy way.
[00:44:26] Speaker A: Jess, you would literally talk to the homeless guy that's outside of your apartment.
[00:44:30] Speaker B: I would.
[00:44:33] Speaker A: Like, hey, how you doing today? Oh, my gosh. That's such a nice cart you have that you're pushing around.
[00:44:42] Speaker B: I'll be like, you want me to help you bling it?
[00:44:47] Speaker A: Oh, my gosh. Here, let me give you a ribbon to spruce up your car.
[00:44:54] Speaker B: That's very true. But you know what? I love to talk to people, not only for me, but because I feel like a lot of people are lonely. Those are my favorite people to talk to.
[00:45:02] Speaker A: And you also learn things.
[00:45:04] Speaker B: Mm hmm. If I can make them smile or I try to give compliments whenever I can, too, even if it's something stupid. Like, I like your shirt. I like your nails. I like your hair, even if I don't like it. I try. Not every single person, but I always try to give someone a compliment because you never know what that can do for their day.
[00:45:20] Speaker A: Yeah. And so that's me. Like, I. Obviously, everybody knows I work at Wawa, and one of the things about Wawa is they're very inclusive. So pronouns are a big thing. Like, they want people to come to work and be themselves, and they want to be able to feel like they are themselves. Like that. I love it, too. Cause, like, I tend to be extra.
I mean, not me. And they just love that about me. You know what I mean? They allow me to do it. Like, my puns. I make wawa puns all the time, like, conhunculations and flock star.
So, like, they allow me to do that. I'm not hurting anybody. I'm just, you know, having a good time, and I'm being myself, and they like to see that. So I always say, hey, friends. Every time somebody comes in. Also one Tree hill reference.
[00:46:11] Speaker B: But how.
[00:46:13] Speaker A: It's very. It's very gender neutral. I started to utilize that, and I would always say, hey, friends. So I had this lady that came in, and she was coming in, and I didn't know she was having a bad day. She was just coming in to buy cigarettes. And I had seen her one other time before in there, and I was.
[00:46:29] Speaker C: Like, hey, friend, how you doing today?
[00:46:31] Speaker A: How can I help you? And she's like, I need to get four packs of Marlboro gold, one hundred s, and I need to do them two and two because you get the discount.
[00:46:42] Speaker B: Okay.
[00:46:42] Speaker C: I was like, okay, no problem.
[00:46:44] Speaker A: And I went. I. They were literally right underneath of me. I grabbed them, scanned them, got everything going, and I was like, do you need a receipt for either one? And she's like, oh, no, I don't need a receipt. I already have enough in here. And I was like, all right, friend, have a great day. And she, like, left, and then she came back a little while later, and she's like, I just wanted to let you know that earlier when I came in here, I was having a very, very bad day. And when you were so nice and was like, hey, friend, how you doing? It made my day so much better.
[00:47:18] Speaker B: Aw.
[00:47:19] Speaker A: And she's like, can I have a hug?
[00:47:21] Speaker B: Oh, my gosh, I love that.
[00:47:24] Speaker A: So I gave her a hug. I mean, aw. And like, I was saying happy birthday to the customers just because, like, that's me. Okay, so my number five is, hey, dudes.
[00:47:34] Speaker B: Okay, how many different ones do you have?
[00:47:36] Speaker A: Um, including David's or just including mine?
[00:47:40] Speaker B: Well, I'm sure you probably take David's, so. Including David's.
[00:47:44] Speaker A: Yeah, yeah. Um, and also, he takes mine, too.
[00:47:48] Speaker B: Okay, that's fair.
[00:47:50] Speaker A: Um, you know, that's the. That's the perk of being married and being a man. Married to another man.
[00:47:55] Speaker B: Yeah.
[00:47:56] Speaker A: I mean, you get this whole entire wardrobe. You get this whole entire new shoe collection.
[00:48:02] Speaker B: It's true.
[00:48:03] Speaker A: And, like, especially shoes, because he and I wear some shoes, he has to get a 13, and I. And I wear twelve. Okay, so, like, some shoes we can't, like, share, but.
[00:48:18] Speaker B: Right.
[00:48:18] Speaker A: Most of them we can. Like, he. He'll, like, be leaving. Like, he left to go to the doctors, and he literally grabbed my, hey, dudes. And slid them on. And I'm like, I don't care. Like, I really don't. Like, yeah, there's shirts that I wear that used to be his, and I wear them now. And he's always like, why are you wearing my clothes? Why are you wearing my clothes? But deep down inside, he loves it.
[00:48:42] Speaker B: He probably does. And, I mean, if you think about it, it saves money, because if you weren't able to wear his clothes, you'd have to buy new clothes.
[00:48:49] Speaker A: Yep.
[00:48:50] Speaker B: So he should consider that next time.
[00:48:53] Speaker A: I mean, I do love clothes. I just don't typically buy them because I'd rather spend it on food.
[00:48:59] Speaker B: Oh, my God. Don't ever get on sheen.
[00:49:01] Speaker A: Oh, I did that one time. One time. Never again.
[00:49:04] Speaker B: Why?
[00:49:06] Speaker A: Because I spent too much.
[00:49:08] Speaker B: It's so.
Oh, yeah. But you know what? Not to encourage you, but you know what I do is I break up the payments, then it doesn't hurt as bad.
[00:49:17] Speaker A: I did that, and it was a $1000 order and I was paying a lot of money.
[00:49:24] Speaker B: Okay, now that is ridiculous. My order was 250.
[00:49:31] Speaker A: Okay, so they have these jogger shorts on there.
[00:49:35] Speaker B: Mm hmm.
[00:49:35] Speaker A: That have, like, the little underwear piece built inside.
[00:49:38] Speaker B: Okay.
[00:49:40] Speaker A: And they're so comfy. And I love those shorts. And when I worked at the pizza shop, I used to buy those shorts for there because, like, they were so comfortable. I didn't feel like I was overly hot in those. I didn't feel like I was getting like, swamp ass or swamp crotch or anything like that.
[00:49:59] Speaker B: Okay. Yeah, I get that.
[00:50:01] Speaker A: Yeah. This was before my ball deodorant, so I had to really watch it so I didn't get smelly nut syndrome.
[00:50:10] Speaker B: Before the mints wiped.
[00:50:12] Speaker A: Yeah. Like, if you go on my sheen right now, I probably have almost $2,000 worth of stuff in there that I want to buy.
That's what I do. Like, I will. Like my Amazon cart.
David always has to, like, clean it out of because I'll go on Amazon and I won't actually buy this stuff, but I'll put it in the cart.
[00:50:36] Speaker B: Okay. I do that too.
[00:50:38] Speaker A: It's like I'm later.
Yeah. And it. Well, David ends up doing that for me because we share an Amazon account.
[00:50:47] Speaker B: He's always David.
[00:50:49] Speaker A: He's always.
He does, actually, I mean, I don't know how many times he. He's cleaned up my underwear off the floor and made the bed for me because I can't make the bed or something like that. He always cleans up my messes.
[00:51:04] Speaker B: But I feel like in a lot of relationships, you kind of need that give and take.
[00:51:10] Speaker A: Yeah.
[00:51:11] Speaker B: You know what I mean? So. So we're not gonna fault you for being messy because I don't have to clean up your mess. I don't care.
[00:51:18] Speaker A: But that's. That's the ironic part, though, is I always want my body clean. Why wouldn't I want the house to be, like, 100% spotless? There's certain things.
Excuse me. There are certain things that I'm very big on, like dust. I hate dust being on things.
Floors.
And this is from my mom. My mom was always a floor nazi. Like, if there was something on the floor, she was cleaning the whole entire floor.
She had my dad put hardwood floors in the entire house because the carpet had too many germs in it. Like, she was a floor person. Another thing is too. And David got this from his mom as well. When people come over to the house, it was always clean the house, make sure it's in order so that it's presentable when people come over.
Yes.
[00:52:13] Speaker B: That's how I growing up.
[00:52:15] Speaker A: Yeah. So that's how I was growing up. That's how David was growing up. So every time somebody's coming over to the house, we're like, okay, we had to clean up. We had to get this in order. We had to get that in order. And it's driving us crazy because the maintenance men can just come whenever.
[00:52:31] Speaker B: Yeah. Oh.
[00:52:33] Speaker A: Because, like, they'll just knock on the door and we'll be like, hey, yeah. You know what I mean? So, like, because we live in an apartment complex, so it's like, that's new to us because, like, oh, man, this, this. And so, like, I know I do it and I've seen David do it, too. Like, we'll be going throughout the house, like, fixing things.
[00:52:55] Speaker B: Yeah, it's.
[00:52:58] Speaker A: But I really do say he is a saintly man for dealing with me because my ADHD, it's strong sometimes.
[00:53:07] Speaker B: Oh, yeah, no, I totally. I mean, I have ADHD too, but it's different.
But you remind me a lot of my son. Like, my son is so clean. Hygiene. But the kitchen. He loves to cook, but he don't love to clean the dishes, so he makes a mess. And I'm like, how do you cook? And then he'll come in and cook again. I'm like, I cannot cook in a messy kitchen. I cannot.
It's just my. I just can't. He can. He's a great cook, too, but, yeah, no, it. We get in fights about it all the time.
[00:53:41] Speaker A: I mean, I'm not going to go as far to say I'm a great cook.
I can definitely whip up a mean Mac and cheese and really heat up those hot dogs and hamburgers real good.
[00:53:55] Speaker B: As long as you can cook hot dogs. That's all David needs. I remember that.
[00:53:59] Speaker A: Yeah. But I do tend to be messy when I cook, and I also tend to overthink recipes and then it turns out bad. So if I follow the recipe, it's fine. It's real good.
Yeah, but sometimes I feel like I'm like, you know, a chef and I'm like, boom. And, like, put some stuff in there and it's like, why did I put that in there? That's nasty.
So.
[00:54:34] Speaker B: Yeah, no, I do. I understand that. All right, back to my list. Number six is dancing.
Dancing is one of my favorite, like, activities to do.
And I also love to encourage other people to dance, like, when I'm out at the club or whatever. Because when I was younger, my ex didn't like me to dance because he just said, like, I was showing off or anything like that. So for 20 years, I didn't really dance.
And I'm not saying, like, I'm not a good dancer. That's not what I'm saying. But, like, it makes me so happy. I love to see people on the side dancing. Cause I know they wanna be on the dance floor. I go drag them up. I've made so many friends that way. Like, it's crazy. I'll go on the dance floor now and dance by myself. I do not care.
But that's my favorite thing.
[00:55:27] Speaker A: I mean, I can see that. And I'm shocked that you were not allowed to dance for 20 years. That is heartbreaking because I know you very well, and dancing is your love language.
[00:55:40] Speaker B: It is.
[00:55:41] Speaker A: I love it. There's been many times that you have rubbed your big white cock on me while dancing on the dance floor.
[00:55:49] Speaker B: You're welcome.
[00:55:50] Speaker A: And you remember when we were dancing on the dance floor and I said, oh, yeah. And I was, like, bending over and Derek's, like, looking at me weird. I said, yeah, her cock's bigger than yours. And he got so offended.
[00:56:05] Speaker B: He's like, what the heck? He's like, what did I get into?
[00:56:09] Speaker A: But, yeah, you do love to dance. Like, and we do. When you're upset, like, this is the thing about dancing in you. It's when you're upset and you hear that song that comes on that you can just boogie to. You shake your ass from the beginning of that song to the end of that song, and the song has ended and you're still to the same beat.
[00:56:32] Speaker B: Yes, absolutely.
[00:56:34] Speaker A: It's just you.
I can totally see why dance is on your list. I actually feel like that is, like, the number one thing that you cannot live without.
[00:56:44] Speaker B: I.
Looking at my list, I would probably say yes. Yeah, that's probably. It just makes me happy. Even, like, if I'm just at a store or something, I'll find myself dance. Like, I don't even do it on purpose, but, like, I'll just. If it's. If it's a song I like, I just find myself, like, dancing, then I'm like, what am I doing? But I don't care. I don't care. If people. I used to, but I don't anymore.
[00:57:02] Speaker A: I mean, I even dance at work. Like, yeah, songs come on. And, like, right now it's hoagie fest, so, like, it's my favorite time of year. I mean, I love pickles on my classic. So, like, every time a hoagie fest song comes on, I'm, like, dancing. And.
And my GM actually got to work with me on day shift the other day, and she hasn't ever seen me, like, run a shift from beginning to end.
[00:57:32] Speaker B: Okay.
[00:57:33] Speaker A: So, like, it was definitely different for her. She was, like, laughing at me. Not. Not, like, laughing at me, but, like, laughing with me, because she was just like, you're. You're such a goof. Cause, like, I was saying, like, have a classic day.
Happy hoagie fans.
Yeah, I love that, though. Yeah. And she was just, like. She was just, you know, giggling because, like, she did. She hasn't actually, like, experienced that side of me.
[00:58:02] Speaker B: Yeah. And it's very fun.
[00:58:04] Speaker A: Yeah. I would definitely say dancing is your number one because you even are on TikTok all the time watching dance videos.
[00:58:11] Speaker B: Absolutely. That's my favorite thing.
[00:58:13] Speaker A: Yep.
[00:58:14] Speaker B: Yeah. I love watching dancing.
[00:58:17] Speaker A: So my number six is fabric softener.
[00:58:21] Speaker B: Okay.
[00:58:22] Speaker A: So I hate starchy feeling clothes.
[00:58:27] Speaker B: Yes, I do, too.
[00:58:29] Speaker A: And when they do, like, polls and stuff of millennials, the one thing that they say is that millennials don't have. Use fabric softener a lot.
[00:58:49] Speaker B: Oh, really?
[00:58:49] Speaker A: For me? Well, they just don't want to spend.
[00:58:51] Speaker C: The money on it.
[00:58:53] Speaker B: Oh, okay.
[00:58:54] Speaker A: I get that because it's an extra expense for me. I'm going to make sure that that's budgeted in.
[00:58:59] Speaker B: Yes.
[00:59:00] Speaker A: Like, when I got with David, David didn't use fabric softener.
I was like, we need some fabric softener. So then he started buying it because I like it. Also, another thing is too, like, when I was working at the pizza shop, because of the grease and stuff, I always bought oxy.
[00:59:20] Speaker B: Okay.
[00:59:21] Speaker A: Now I don't buy it because I don't really have a very valid reason to buy it.
[00:59:28] Speaker B: Right.
[00:59:29] Speaker A: But fabric softener. Yeah. I'm not greasy now.
[00:59:33] Speaker B: Yeah.
[00:59:34] Speaker A: So fabric softener is always on the list to buy. And, like, David knows it now. So we always have fabric softener.
[00:59:44] Speaker B: And I think that's fair. That's something that makes you feel better. Your clothes are not starchy. They're, you know, they're clean, you know, so I think that's more than fair.
[00:59:55] Speaker C: Yeah.
[00:59:55] Speaker B: That's a good thing to budget in.
[00:59:57] Speaker A: Yeah. And I love it. It makes my clothes feel so soft.
[01:00:01] Speaker B: Yes. So the funny thing is, my number seven is clean smells.
Like laundry detergent.
I like cinnamon smells, but my number one smell is gain.
I like the little beads.
Like, I actually just bought some.
Yes. And whenever my clothes smell like that and, like, let's say I'm having a bad day or something and I've been called out for this is I will sit there and, like, sniff my shirt like a weirdo. And people are probably just like, what is she doing? But, like, I don't know why, but it, like, calms me down and relaxes me.
It's so weird. But clean smells is definitely something that whenever I smell it, I just. I feel like all my problems have gone away. I know that sounds stupid, but it's true.
[01:00:55] Speaker A: So I have a sister that during one of her pregnancies, she was very into smelling different things. Like different scent beads and stuff like that, because it calmed her too. And she's still the same way. She'll still smell them when she's stressed out and stuff. And it relaxes her as well.
[01:01:18] Speaker B: Yeah. Yeah.
[01:01:20] Speaker A: So that's not normal to me. Now, if you were eating them, then, yeah, that would be abnormal.
[01:01:25] Speaker B: I can say I've never ate them before.
That's the truth.
[01:01:31] Speaker A: I mean. Yeah. I mean, and there's different things that people don't realize that allow you to, like, secrete more of your happy hormones. And so there is some things that, like, one thing that is very random that I smell a lot. And it, like, makes me feel better is colognes. Like, certain colognes. So my uncle that absolutely still love him, he has passed.
He passed in 2008. But brute was what he always wore. So if I smell that, it instantly, like, makes me happy because it reminds me of him.
[01:02:17] Speaker B: Yeah, I think that's pretty common, you know, like, you have a smell or something, your childhood or one of your people. And I'm like that with old Spice.
When I smell old spice, it's not something, like, I seek for in a man, but when I smell it, it reminds me of someone that was very special to me.
[01:02:35] Speaker A: Yeah. Oh, Stetson is another one. Stetson. When I smell Stetson, I think my dad.
[01:02:42] Speaker B: No.
[01:02:42] Speaker A: Which is really weird because, like, my dad and I have never had, like, a really, like, strong relationship.
But there's one thing about my dad that I will always appreciate about him and that is the fact that he has the biggest heart of anybody I've ever met.
[01:03:03] Speaker B: No, he's like you.
[01:03:06] Speaker A: Yeah, he is an asshole.
And he can say some rude ass shit, but at the end of the day, he would give his shirt off of his back to somebody just so they didn't have to go without. Like, he has the hugest heart.
[01:03:21] Speaker B: I love that.
[01:03:22] Speaker A: And every time I smell Stetson, that's what I think of as my. My dad's a good person.
[01:03:27] Speaker B: Yeah. Well, I love that bow.
[01:03:30] Speaker A: Yeah.
[01:03:31] Speaker B: Yeah.
[01:03:33] Speaker A: So my number seven is Pringles.
So Alyssa has braces right now.
[01:03:46] Speaker B: Mm hmm. Yes.
[01:03:47] Speaker A: And she couldn't, like, eat, like, Doritos and stuff like that because it's too crunchy. So, like, I had pringles, and the orthodontist was like, well, pringles, they're nothing hard, so they're, you know, it doesn't take a lot of effort and biting and stuff to chew them. So she would. She'll break them up, and she'll eat them with me. So they just became my favorite thing because, like, her and I can share them.
[01:04:15] Speaker B: Yeah.
[01:04:16] Speaker A: And I will devour a whole entire can of pringles, like, the tall can. Not. Not a little can. The tall can.
[01:04:24] Speaker B: Same sour cream and onion. That's my favorite. I do not buy them for that reason. I will eat the whole can.
[01:04:29] Speaker A: I love the sour cream and onions, but now they have home style ranch ones.
[01:04:35] Speaker B: Oh, is that, like, cool ranch ish?
[01:04:38] Speaker A: It's. No, it just tastes like ranch powder, like, the seasoning stuff that you can make homemade ranch dip with.
[01:04:46] Speaker B: Yeah. Yeah.
[01:04:47] Speaker A: But it's like a multigrain pringle.
[01:04:50] Speaker B: Oh, so it's healthy.
[01:04:52] Speaker A: Yeah. So that's why I eat the whole can.
Cause they're healthy.
I'll. I'll take a picture, and I'll post it on our socials so people can.
[01:05:03] Speaker B: Okay.
[01:05:04] Speaker A: See them because they also have cheese. There's cheese and ranch and.
[01:05:08] Speaker B: Okay. Yeah. I haven't bought pringles in forever for that reason, though, because I will sit there and eat the whole can, especially because, like, if you really look at it, there's not really that much in it.
[01:05:19] Speaker A: Yeah.
[01:05:19] Speaker B: As opposed to, like, a bag of chips. It just looks bigger. It's probably the same amount of chips. I don't know. I've never counted, but it just. It seems healthier to me. I don't know why. Because I love baked chips, like, the lays baked sour cream. And I also love. They're just a little pricey.
[01:05:35] Speaker A: Yeah.
[01:05:36] Speaker B: But those. I. Those are my favorite. Those are my all time favorite chips, but I don't buy them because they're too much.
[01:05:41] Speaker A: Yeah. I love pringles. They're probably my all time favorite chip too, because I, and I'm a, I'm a potato girly, so I probably should just put potatoes because, yeah, I don't care.
[01:05:52] Speaker B: Me too.
[01:05:53] Speaker A: Yeah, I don't care if you're Dyson slashing my mashing. I'm gonna eat. Yeah, I'm gonna eat them damn potatoes.
[01:06:00] Speaker B: That's true. That, you know, that's my number eleven.
[01:06:03] Speaker A: Yeah, me too. That's my number eleven.
[01:06:07] Speaker B: Yeah. I could eat nothing but ice cream potatoes and happy.
[01:06:11] Speaker A: Oh, hell yeah. Like, yeah.
[01:06:13] Speaker B: Because think of all things you can make with potatoes. Like, it's a lot.
[01:06:16] Speaker A: It's just like chicken tenders. Like, David's like, what do you want for dinner? Chicken tenders and fries.
Like, I could live off of chicken tenders and fries.
[01:06:29] Speaker B: Yeah.
[01:06:29] Speaker A: Like, he used to get fries for.
[01:06:31] Speaker B: Potatoes, so that still falls in the category.
[01:06:34] Speaker A: Yes. He used to make fun of me because we would go to a steakhouse with steak and I would buy chicken tenders and fries.
I'm I'm not a steak girly like that. Like, I will have steak and shrimp every once in a while.
It's like a treat to myself because I was a good boy.
[01:06:56] Speaker B: Yeah. Yeah.
[01:06:58] Speaker A: But chicken tenders and fries will will always be my favorite. Like, you cannot go wrong with chicken tendies and you cannot go wrong with some real good fries. And you got your ranch. Bowl of ranch. I order a bowl of ranch, yes. And if they, so I order a bowl of ranch and they bring me these little tiny dinky cups, like two ounce saute cups. And David is so well trained now that he's like, these two need more ranch because ab and I will literally devour some ranch. And then AB now has me obsessed with the chick fil a sauce.
[01:07:41] Speaker B: Oh, do you buy it? They have it at Walmart.
[01:07:45] Speaker A: Yeah, that's, we get it at the grocery store. And so, like, it. There's always that in our fridge and, and there's always ranch in our fridge, and there's always mayonnaise because David loves mayonnaise.
[01:08:01] Speaker B: Yes, I do. I do. Like, on a good sandwich, I'm a dippy person, so if I can dip something, I want to. So mine is chick fil a sauce, ranch and honey mustard. Only Ken's honey mustard, though.
[01:08:15] Speaker A: Well, Ken's is the only one that doesn't have that weird taste to it.
[01:08:20] Speaker B: Yeah, I've definitely, like, tried other ones, but Ken's, since I can remember, has been the best one I've ever had. I I've never bought, like, a different brand of honey mustard and then went back and got that again because it just isn't the same. Yeah, but the funny is about you with the chicken tenders is Derek also gets on me when I go to Texas roadhouse. I love the chicken critters. Those are. Are the best.
[01:08:47] Speaker C: They are.
[01:08:49] Speaker B: And I get honey mustard. I like the extra honey mustard. I like ranch. But there, I'm pretty sure it's Ken's that they use, because that just slaps.
[01:08:59] Speaker A: I mean, it's food. It's food service, honestly. So, like, most food service uses Ken's because it's really easy to get for them.
[01:09:07] Speaker B: Yeah. Yeah.
[01:09:09] Speaker A: When I worked at the pizza shop, they had made their own honey mustard. That is the only other honey mustard other than Ken's that I loved.
[01:09:21] Speaker B: Yeah.
[01:09:21] Speaker A: Like, to the point where I was even dipping my french fries into it. Like, it's real good.
[01:09:28] Speaker B: Yeah, I do that too. Yeah. And even the Ken's light, it still tastes very similar to me. Like, I'll do depending on what the store has. Sometimes they don't have it, but that's, like, the one thing, because I do not like light dressings, mayonnaise, cheese. I just like full fat. Some things I will definitely do diet or light or whatever, but not those type of things. I just. I don't know what it is. I just can't do it.
[01:09:52] Speaker A: Well, also, at the same time, like, you know, they put diet or they put light on things, but, yeah, it's just like smoking light cigarettes. There ain't no. There ain't nothing different about it. You're still, you know, having the same effects. And, like, most of your foods that say, like, light or low sodium, if you compare them to the normal ones, it's actually got more sodium in it.
[01:10:16] Speaker B: Yes. Nope. I've definitely done that before. And I'm like, well, I'm just gonna do the full fat one then.
[01:10:20] Speaker A: Yeah.
[01:10:21] Speaker B: Because I do look, when I'm trying something new, I do try to look at the labels and stuff. Just so, because I do try to make good choices. I haven't been making the greatest choices lately, but, like, even with ice cream, like, the carb smart, it's still not good for you. But it's at least it's a little lighter. And I don't feel as bad, because I do love ice cream. So sometimes I will if it's on sale, like the breyers, carb smart is pretty good. I'll spring for it.
And then also, my kids don't touch it because it says carb smart.
[01:10:55] Speaker A: Yeah.
[01:10:56] Speaker B: So it's a win win for me, but, yeah. All right, so, my number eight. You are gonna be so shocked by this one, because it means more than what it is, is rainbows.
[01:11:12] Speaker A: I'm not sure.
[01:11:15] Speaker B: I know. Since I was a child. I know I've talked about this before, but my aunt actually found some drawings that I made her that she kept because she's so sweet. She sent it to me. It's pictures of rainbows. Ever since I was a child, like, young child, five, six, seven, I have drawn pictures. I'm not an artist, but I have drawn pictures of rainbows. Like, the sky scene.
Like, rainbows have always been so important to me, and it represents happiness to me.
Like, my first tattoo, rainbow. And that's. And it's nothing to do with, like, pride or anything like that. It's truly that. That is one thing that always makes me happy when I see a rainbow, whether it's the pride flag, whether it's just products out there that happen to be pride or whatever, or just in general, just a rainbow umbrella we saw the other day. Like, I. It just makes me happy. It just brings back good memories for me.
That's why it's on there.
[01:12:18] Speaker A: I can. I can actually feel you on that. Like, so when I think of the rainbow, I think of hope.
[01:12:26] Speaker B: Yes.
[01:12:27] Speaker A: So, like, there's a sense of hope that, you know, tomorrow's gonna be a good day, or.
[01:12:32] Speaker B: Yeah.
[01:12:33] Speaker A: You know, I'm going in the right direction. I am very big. Like, since I have Beverly, I mean, I really don't want to get into it too much, but on the short, because we'll talk about it in another episode. But as I get older, I feel like I get more in tuned with the world around me.
[01:12:58] Speaker B: Yes. I can relate to that.
[01:12:59] Speaker A: Yeah. And I listen to the world more because it does talk to you, and it shows you things.
[01:13:07] Speaker B: Yeah.
[01:13:08] Speaker A: And so, like, there's actually. Actually, that's how I ended up. David and I ended up making the decision about Kentucky because, you know, we were just, like, we weren't, like, looking for it. We were just paying attention to everything that was going on around us. And, like, he was seeing, like, kentucky tags, like, sitting at the school, joppa town high, like, on a car, and he's like, this is weird. Like, it's a Kentucky tag. Like, that's not very common to see at a high school.
So, I mean, like, there's just a lot of different things that we started to notice, and that's why I was like, well, because, like, even Alyssa had came to me and was like, you know, we keep seeing these things and stuff like that. I was like, well, the universe does talk to you.
Just some people listen and some people don't.
[01:14:05] Speaker B: That's true.
[01:14:06] Speaker A: So I feel like the rainbow has always been the signal of hope for me.
[01:14:14] Speaker B: Yeah.
Better days to come. Absolutely.
[01:14:18] Speaker A: Yep.
[01:14:20] Speaker B: Yeah.
[01:14:21] Speaker A: So my number eight is energy drinks.
[01:14:26] Speaker B: Makes sense.
[01:14:29] Speaker A: My husband will attest to this as well.
God, he is. He is a really good man. He has to deal with me.
[01:14:38] Speaker B: Yes.
[01:14:39] Speaker C: He.
[01:14:40] Speaker A: And he's so good with it, too, because he used to go to the store and he doesn't do it anymore because I switched energy drinks on him and he can't find him in a case.
I used to drink regular monsters.
[01:14:54] Speaker B: Okay.
[01:14:55] Speaker A: And it was no other monster, just regular monster.
And so they had cases at the grocery store, so he would buy me a case of them. So I wasn't buying them at the grocery store. At the gas station all the time.
[01:15:09] Speaker B: Yeah.
[01:15:10] Speaker A: So cheaper. Then I went to Celsius.
Then I love those. Then I went to Alani.
[01:15:19] Speaker B: I like those, too.
[01:15:20] Speaker A: And now I'm stuck on ghost.
[01:15:23] Speaker B: Mmm. What's your favorite flavor?
[01:15:25] Speaker A: The. Honestly, it's the green apple warhead.
[01:15:30] Speaker B: Oh, I haven't had that one. My favorite one is swedish fish.
[01:15:34] Speaker A: I haven't had that one.
[01:15:36] Speaker B: Oh, it tastes. If you like swedish fish, I'm telling you, it tastes just like it.
[01:15:40] Speaker A: I love swedish fish. It's one of my favorite candies.
[01:15:43] Speaker B: Me, too. It's my favorite one. If they don't have it, I don't buy, like, I don't drink energy drinks all the time. Like, I'm sure you do, just because of your crazy work schedule. But, like, I just bought one at the grocery store yesterday because I had a coupon, like, on my app or whatever.
[01:15:57] Speaker A: Yeah.
[01:15:57] Speaker B: I was like, let me see fish. And they did. Oh, God, they're so. You have to try it.
[01:16:01] Speaker A: Okay. I'm gonna find that one.
[01:16:04] Speaker B: Yeah. So good.
All right. My number nine is photos.
[01:16:12] Speaker A: Oh, that's a good one, Jess.
[01:16:15] Speaker B: Thank you. Because back in the day, right now, like, I have so many pictures on my phone, none of them are printed. I say, like, one time I actually went. I went to Walgreens. I did it online. I loaded up all my pictures. It was a ridiculous amount of money. And I was like, okay, I'm not doing this right now, but the photos that I do have printed out, like, I have one of me and my grandma. Like, she's no longer with us, but she was one of my favorite people. As well. That's actually sitting on my dresser. But in photos of my kids when they were younger that I do not have on my phone that are, like, around my house or of my grandkids, you know, a lot of those are on my phone, but, like, just a lot of my photos are old memories, like, when I was a kid and before all this technology stuff. So, like, I have a couple photo albums, but definitely very. It's good to, like, see those pictures, like, around your house and stuff and be surrounded by them.
[01:17:14] Speaker A: Yeah. So one thing that ab and David have brought to my attention is that I actually have a problem with taking too many photos.
[01:17:28] Speaker B: Okay.
[01:17:29] Speaker A: So I. I lost my grandmother to Alzheimer's.
[01:17:36] Speaker B: Okay.
[01:17:37] Speaker A: And anybody that has been around Alzheimer's and has lost somebody to it, it's a very scary process. And, yes, it's a very weird feeling to have somebody that loves you so much to then not know who you are.
[01:17:57] Speaker B: Yeah.
[01:17:58] Speaker A: It really hurts. So I just kind of started taking pictures all the time, and then I found out that my generation is actually the generation that has a higher chance to get Alzheimer's.
[01:18:19] Speaker B: Yeah.
[01:18:20] Speaker A: So.
[01:18:20] Speaker B: Oh, wow.
[01:18:21] Speaker A: I have a problem with taking too many photos because I'm afraid that I'm gonna get it and I'm going to lose all my memories.
[01:18:31] Speaker B: Okay.
[01:18:32] Speaker A: But as David reminded me that taking pictures may help me in the future, but it doesn't help me to enjoy the moment.
[01:18:44] Speaker B: That's true. I mean, I guess it depends on. Do you just take pictures of you, your family, or, like, we take pictures of.
[01:18:50] Speaker A: Oh, everything. Like, that's where he's saying, like, it's just too much. Like, it's okay. He's. He's, like, basically saying, like, it's okay if, like, I get a picture of, like, me, him, and Alyssa somewhere.
[01:19:04] Speaker B: Yeah.
[01:19:05] Speaker A: But, like, we went to the zoo, and I'm taking pictures of everything.
[01:19:12] Speaker B: Okay.
[01:19:13] Speaker A: And he's like, you don't need to take pictures of everything. You're missing out on the opportunity to spend time with us and, like, live in the moment.
[01:19:21] Speaker B: Yeah.
[01:19:22] Speaker A: And I. He has a valid point. He really does. And then.
[01:19:26] Speaker B: Yeah.
[01:19:26] Speaker A: You know, even Ab was like, yeah, PC. You take a lot of pictures.
Like, the pictures of her, like, David understands. Like, pictures of her or pictures of us together, or there's kinds of things he understands. But I don't need 200 pictures of birds while it's raining on their head. You know what I mean?
[01:19:48] Speaker B: I do.
[01:19:49] Speaker C: So I understand.
[01:19:50] Speaker A: I get what he's saying.
[01:19:52] Speaker B: Yeah, no, I do too. Makes sense.
[01:19:55] Speaker A: So my number nine is magic erasers.
[01:20:00] Speaker B: Oh, okay.
[01:20:01] Speaker A: I know that's weird. I know that sounds really weird.
No, but they are amazing.
[01:20:10] Speaker B: They are.
[01:20:11] Speaker C: And magical.
[01:20:13] Speaker B: They are. They really are. That saved me a lot when my kids were younger. They love to draw on the wall, so. And I rent it most of my life until I bought my house, but, yeah. So I totally understand. I agree with that one. You can get them at dollar tree, too.
[01:20:31] Speaker C: Mm hmm.
[01:20:32] Speaker B: Because they all fall apart. Like, even the mister clean brand ones. I will definitely say they're a little sturdier, but they fall apart, too.
[01:20:40] Speaker A: Yeah.
[01:20:40] Speaker B: So dollar tree is where it's at, baby.
[01:20:43] Speaker A: Yep.
[01:20:45] Speaker B: Yeah.
All right, you ready for my number ten?
[01:20:48] Speaker A: Yes.
[01:20:50] Speaker B: I kind of saved, I'm not gonna say the best for last, but, like, something that's very important for last.
[01:20:56] Speaker A: Okay.
[01:20:58] Speaker B: It's faith.
And I don't necessarily mean, like, religious. I just mean if I don't have faith, how am I gonna believe in something?
Like, because when think bad things happen to me or to some of my family, that's what keeps me going, is I just believe that something better is going to come. And if I don't have that, I think I'd go crazy if I didn't have the ability to believe in something better. If that makes sense, Zachary.
[01:21:31] Speaker A: No, it does make sense. And it also kind of, like, goes hand in hand with love. And, like, you and I both have had conversations with us as friends where, like, you and I both have had those moments in our lives where we didn't love ourselves as much.
[01:21:49] Speaker B: Yes, absolutely.
[01:21:50] Speaker A: And we couldn't. You can't give out when you can't, you know, love yourself when you can't love yourself, you can't love the world around you or appreciate the world around you. Yes. Faith is one of those things. If you don't have faith in yourself, not about God or the universe or anything like that. The faith in yourself. If you can't have the faith in yourself, you can't have faith in anybody else.
[01:22:19] Speaker B: Right? Yeah, exactly. That's so true.
[01:22:23] Speaker C: Very, very true.
[01:22:24] Speaker B: And unfortunately, as humans, we all make mistakes.
So I feel like when someone makes a mistake, it's our job to have faith in them so that they can do or feel better, because we're all going to make mistakes.
[01:22:38] Speaker A: Yeah.
[01:22:38] Speaker B: Like, let's not other down about it. Let's support each other and realize that I'm probably gonna make a mistake tomorrow. Like, and I'm gonna want someone to do that for me. Like, I just wish more people would think like that instead of just, like, canceling people or disowning them or anything like that. I mean, there are. Some things are forgivable. I'm not gonna say there's not, but for the most part, just remember, like, it could be you going through that.
[01:23:05] Speaker A: Exactly. And faith is a very strong word, too, because, like, if you really. When you think of faith, you think of a lot of other words that, like, kind of go with that, like, love and compassion and, you know, grace. Giving people grace that.
[01:23:24] Speaker B: Yes.
[01:23:25] Speaker A: And hope. You know, that's all. There's all those things. Kind of, like, I feel, like, kind of relate to the word faith, and it kind of encompasses a lot.
[01:23:37] Speaker B: Yes, absolutely.
[01:23:39] Speaker A: So, my number ten takes a complete left turn from that beautiful conversation we just had.
[01:23:46] Speaker B: I can't wait.
[01:23:48] Speaker A: My number ten is swiss navy water based lube.
[01:23:53] Speaker B: Oh, my God.
Is that the best one, Clay?
[01:24:00] Speaker A: It's the best one.
[01:24:02] Speaker B: Okay.
[01:24:02] Speaker A: Yes. That is.
That is the kens of lubes.
[01:24:13] Speaker B: I have never used any lube or anything, so I don't really know anything, like, about it, but I know, like, it's necessary.
[01:24:21] Speaker A: Yeah.
[01:24:22] Speaker B: For you, because you don't. You can't produce, like a woman can.
[01:24:26] Speaker A: Yes.
[01:24:27] Speaker B: Not all, but, yeah, I don't have that problem, so. But, yes.
[01:24:32] Speaker A: So it's just.
It's the only one that doesn't.
Like. It's not sticky. It's not like. Like, wet is good. Like, there's a brand called wet, but nothing beats swiss navy. Like, they really made this stuff so those navy men could swab those poop decks. Like.
[01:24:58] Speaker B: Like, your choice of words kills me.
[01:25:02] Speaker A: Top notch, grade a solution there. Mmm.
[01:25:09] Speaker B: Okay.
[01:25:10] Speaker A: It is definitely.
[01:25:11] Speaker B: Look at you. Good thing you have those boxers on.
[01:25:14] Speaker A: Mm hmm. It's definitely. It's definitely the kens of lubes.
[01:25:21] Speaker B: Okay. I love it. Yeah, that was a. That was a good list. I think we both did very good.
[01:25:28] Speaker A: I think we did, too.
[01:25:30] Speaker B: And, yeah, I was worried. I have a hard time of coming. Coming up with things that meant something, because at first, I was like, okay, tv shows or foods, but then, like, once I. Once I stopped overthinking it, then stuff just started coming to me, and I started adding it, so.
[01:25:44] Speaker A: Amen. Once I stopped trying to be so serious with it, it just came.
[01:25:50] Speaker B: It did. And I think we both did a great job.
[01:25:52] Speaker A: Yes. I think we did, too.
[01:25:55] Speaker B: And I'm excited to name our top ten favorite songs.
[01:25:59] Speaker A: Yes. Okay. So, next week, on that note, we will be doing top ten of our top ten all time favorite songs. So tune in next week for that when we return, it's can I eat it? With David and ab this week, they are reviewing something sweet and seductive. So stay tuned for can I eat it? Coming up next, this is always be a big deal podcast with Clay Phoenix and Jessica Vendetta dreaming about cupcakes that make you fly.
Chocolate rivers ice cream.
[01:26:43] Speaker B: Every candy color. It's a dream come true.
Can I eat it?
[01:26:54] Speaker A: Is it sweet?
[01:26:55] Speaker D: Can I try?
[01:26:57] Speaker B: Can I, can I eat it?
Tell me, can I have slice of the sky?
[01:27:22] Speaker D: Hello. Hello, everyone. Happy tasty Tuesday.
This is David coming in live with. So you think you can eat it here with. Hi, Ab, my daughter, our daughter. And decided to do a little something different today about tasty Tuesday because we have something that we are going to do together.
So you think you can eat it.
So, Alyssa, during your daily routine of being on your phone and you were on YouTube recently and you came across what?
[01:28:05] Speaker E: Crumble cookie.
[01:28:06] Speaker D: Crumble cookie. Never heard of it. And so we decided to do a little research and look it up. And apparently they are supposed to be the world's greatest cookies.
[01:28:17] Speaker E: Yeah.
[01:28:18] Speaker D: At least that's what we are seeing. So we did a little research to find out what it's all about. And apparently this company, which is a franchise company, makes fresh baked cookies daily.
And they have how many flavors?
[01:28:39] Speaker E: Six.
[01:28:40] Speaker D: Six. So they have six flavors that they do. So every week they have six new flavors that apparently you can buy. You can order them online. Apparently they can ship them to you. If you have a local store in your area, you can go to the store. We've never heard of it. And we looked it up. And of course, there are two in our local area. There's one in white Marsh, Maryland, or Perry Hall Nottingham area, and there's another one in Bel Air. So today on our outing, we decided to go to crumble cookie in Bel Air, Maryland, and check it all out. So when we walk into the store, what do we do?
[01:29:17] Speaker E: So you go straight to, they have like a computer and you pick out, there's two different sizes if you really want the big ones or the small ones.
[01:29:28] Speaker D: So you go up to this kind of like self serve counter to their iPads, and you can select how many cookies you want, how many cookies you want. You can get one cookie, you can get a twelve. Two cookies, you can get six cookies, you can get twelve cookies, you can get 48 cookies. But they also have mini cookies as well.
[01:29:50] Speaker E: Yes.
[01:29:50] Speaker D: And again, every week they come out with new flavors, which is pretty interesting. So apparently this week, when we went in to check it out for the first time. And we already sampled one of them when we got here to the house. So we decided to jump on here together and do so you think you can eat it and tell you about this week's flavored cookies that they have and give you our feedback and opinion and what we think. So the first one that they have. So this week, they have semi sweet chocolate chunk cookie, butter cake, cookie, chocolate covered pretzel pie, lemon cupcake, honey bun, and peanut butter and jelly. So the honey bun is a delicious, rich cinnamon cookie smothered with a honey butter glaze.
[01:30:38] Speaker E: That's the one that we tried.
[01:30:40] Speaker D: And what did you think about it?
[01:30:41] Speaker E: I honestly really liked it. It actually did taste like a honey bun.
[01:30:45] Speaker D: It totally tasted like a honey bun. And it was. They was nice and soft. And these aren't small cookies either.
[01:30:51] Speaker E: And they're freshly made.
[01:30:52] Speaker D: We checked it out. They make them fresh in house. They measure out all the ingredients in their mixers, and they mix it up and turn it into the batter. They have big ovens and stuff in the back. Right. That we saw. They put them in there and they were rotating around when they were cooking. There was a lot of people that was in there working and putting them all together. They have these really cute, like, little cookie tins or whatever that they put them in. And then when they bring them over to you, what color is the box?
[01:31:16] Speaker E: Pink.
[01:31:16] Speaker D: Pink. So, of course, you would had to get a taste of cookie crumble or crumble cookies because it came in a pink box. And what did the lady say to you when she called your name and handed to the box?
[01:31:29] Speaker E: She said that, like, she said that everything looks good. And. Yeah, right.
[01:31:35] Speaker D: They present it to you and they're like, does everything look good? And they. And they did look pretty good.
[01:31:39] Speaker E: Yes.
[01:31:40] Speaker D: So, of course, we tried the honey bun first. And which one do you want to try next?
[01:31:47] Speaker E: I think we should try the peanut butter one.
[01:31:49] Speaker D: Try the peanut butter one. Okay, so this is peanut butter and jelly. Peanut butter and jelly is delectable peanut butter cookie topped with swirls of peanut butter mousse and a tart raspberry topping.
So we're gonna snatch a piece of this one, grab you a piece there, and we are gonna taste this and let you guys know what we think about it. Go ahead.
So what do you think about this?
[01:32:28] Speaker E: It actually does taste like a peanut butter and jelly sandwich.
[01:32:30] Speaker D: It totally does taste like peanut butter and jelly. Like, straight up, no lie. That's some shit right there. I do say that with the raspberry topping.
[01:32:38] Speaker E: A little sweet.
[01:32:39] Speaker D: The raspberry topping is a little sweet, but it's like a natural. Cause if you look like there's actually, like, little raspberry seeds in it. So it's like fresh raspberry.
[01:32:47] Speaker E: Oh, yeah, it is. The whole thing is delicious.
[01:32:50] Speaker D: It really is. The cookies, nice and soft like the peanut butter is not hard and mushy.
[01:32:54] Speaker E: Very delicious.
[01:32:57] Speaker D: I'm pretty, pretty impressed with this one. All right, so we got the peanut butter and jelly out of the way. We got the honey bun. Which one do we want to try next? We have go for the lemon cupcake, the chocolate covered pretzel pie. Butter cake with a semi sweet chocolate chunk.
[01:33:11] Speaker E: Which one do you think?
[01:33:12] Speaker D: We're gonna be fat? And this is like diabetes sitting right here on a plate. Where's our insulin shots?
[01:33:17] Speaker E: Which one do you think, dad?
[01:33:20] Speaker D: Well, the one that's sitting on the plate that's closest to me is the chocolate covered pretzel pie. So let's try that one. There's a slice for you now. The chocolate covered pretzel pie. It's a brownie pie cookie baked with pretzel pieces filled with semisweet butter cream. Then it's topped with pretzel pieces and a drizzle of milk chocolate.
[01:33:39] Speaker E: It smells like chocolate.
[01:33:41] Speaker D: All right, let's check this out.
[01:33:42] Speaker A: Ready?
[01:33:58] Speaker E: I think I have my favorite cookie right here. I think this one's my favorite.
[01:34:00] Speaker D: You think this one's your favorite so far, yes.
[01:34:02] Speaker E: The chocolate is the.
[01:34:04] Speaker D: It's a chocolate brownie.
[01:34:05] Speaker E: Mm hmm.
[01:34:07] Speaker D: I kind of have to say, like, it is good. Definitely more chocolatey than, you know. It kind of gives you that sweet and salty kind of taste combination, but, yeah. All right. I mean, I kind of think, so far, the three that we tried, I think the peanut butter and jelly and the honey bun, I do like those, too.
[01:34:22] Speaker E: Very delicious.
[01:34:24] Speaker D: They are good.
All right, let's see. What do we have next? We have the semi sweet chocolate chunk, the butter cake, or the lemon cupcake.
[01:34:35] Speaker E: I think we should try this one. The butter.
[01:34:39] Speaker D: The butter cake.
[01:34:39] Speaker E: Yes. Let's see what that one is about.
[01:34:41] Speaker D: All right, we're here. Take that. Take a bite of that one. So the butter cake is a warm, gooey butter cake baked, excuse me. With a crunch of sugar crystals, then topped with a delectable berry buttery glaze and a smooth vanilla bean whipped cream.
[01:34:57] Speaker E: It seems soft.
[01:34:58] Speaker D: It's fluffier. It's more like. It's definitely more like a cake than like a cookie.
[01:35:17] Speaker E: This one's a little plain, but really good.
[01:35:19] Speaker D: It's not that it's plain. It's light.
[01:35:21] Speaker E: Yeah, it's very light.
[01:35:22] Speaker D: So the cream, the vanilla bean whipped cream that's on the top is really good. It's really super light, not super sweet. So if you're looking for something that has a light flavor to it, just a little bit of something to take care of that sweet tooth. Definitely. Check out the butter cake. I would say that the cake is a little bit thicker. Kind of like a. Kind of like a pound cake, almost kind of, but not as heavy as a pound cake. And I guess the sugary glaze that they have on it, too, the sugar crystals kind of is the same as your glaze on a doughnut.
Not bad. Definitely about to get a tall glass of cold milk, for sure. All right, which one we gonna try next? Let's try the lemon cupcake. So they call it a lemon cupcake. All right, grab a piece of this one right here.
[01:36:12] Speaker A: Do, do.
[01:36:13] Speaker D: All right, grab a piece. Grab a piece of that one. Now, the lemon cupcake is a lemony vanilla cookie topped with a swirl of velvety lemon frosting and a touch of white sprinkles.
[01:36:25] Speaker E: It actually smells very good.
[01:36:26] Speaker D: I mean, it smells like lemon because there's a lot of things that they make that are like lemon, and they don't really taste like it.
[01:36:47] Speaker B: Wow.
[01:36:48] Speaker E: Very lemony.
[01:36:49] Speaker D: It's not super strong, though, but it does definitely taste like lemon. But it's not a sour y type of lemon. And the frosting on top is light. It's not heavy, it's not thick. It's like a whipped cream, basically frosting almost. That is definitely another light cookie that you could have as a dessert or a snack or needing to fulfill your fat girl fantasy. Definitely don't forget your epipens afterwards because you're definitely going to probably need those. And don't go into a diabetic, a coma.
All right, so we have one more cookie to try and she's super excited about for this one. So this is your semi sweet chocolate chunk. It's a chocolate chip cookie, but make it chunky. A delicious cookie filled with a irresistible semi sweet chocolate chunks and a sprinkle of flaky sea salt. So it's got a little bit of sea salt on the top of it. Let's check it out.
[01:37:57] Speaker E: So, like, the chocolate on top looks so big, but it's actually really soft.
[01:38:00] Speaker D: Yeah, they have big, huge chocolate chunks on it, but it is super soft. But actually, what makes this. I actually like this better. Than the pretzel cookie with the salt on top of this, you actually get that sweet and salty taste.
[01:38:14] Speaker E: Oh, I taste it now.
[01:38:15] Speaker D: You get more of a sweet and salty taste with the chocolate chunk than you do with the chocolate covered pretzel pie. But I do have to say it's pretty good.
[01:38:23] Speaker E: I think we need to get more.
[01:38:25] Speaker D: Pretty banging, actually.
So they are definitely fresh. We watch them make them. We definitely say, go and check out crumble cookie. They also have an app that you can download and you can earn reward points to get a free cookie. And they do have different options, again, for ordering. You can deliver, they can do delivery. You can do store pickup. They have catering that's also available. And apparently they do have national shipping. So if you go online, you can buy it, purchase, place your order, and they'll ship them to you. So that is our little snippet of so you think you can eat it. Oh, there's always something else that we saw, too, is they have what they call their crumble snacks, and it's called cookie dough bites.
[01:39:05] Speaker E: Oh, yeah. We have to try those next time.
[01:39:07] Speaker D: So they have cookie dough bites that are in a pink package.
[01:39:09] Speaker E: Oh, they're so cute. Their package is really cute.
[01:39:12] Speaker B: Mm hmm.
[01:39:12] Speaker D: Yep. So we do recommend it.
[01:39:15] Speaker E: Yeah.
[01:39:15] Speaker D: So we're, so if the are any of the listeners are out there, where should they go? Crumble cookie. You know, you're learning. So go to crumblecookie.com. or you can download their crumble app and it's crumble. C r u M b L. Crumbell. No. E cookie. And again, every week they have six new flavors. You can get their full size cookies, which these aren't small cookies, they're big cookies. And they also have minis. So go online, check them out. Download the app where you can earn rewards and all kinds of stuff. Look, they even show. Oh, they have mystery cookies. What is mystery cookies?
[01:39:49] Speaker E: Oh, we have to try mystery cookies. Definitely.
[01:39:51] Speaker D: What is mystery cookies? Oh, so if you do, if you're on their app and you click on mystery cookies, it says cookies near me. There's Bel Air, Maryland. Nottingham, Maryland. Wow. There's timonium, Owings Mills, York, Pennsylvania. Clarksville, Maryland. Grambles, Maryland. Newark, Delaware. Annapolis, Maryland. So there's actually a lot more stores than I anticipated that would be close to us. There's not that many, however. Seems like they are up and coming. Definitely. Check out crumble cookie. Go pick up yourself some cookies. Test them out. Check them out. They also have all your nutritional information you can get gift cards. They have vouchers for cookies. They have like all kinds of different stuff.
[01:40:32] Speaker E: And you also, when you walk into the store, it's smells so fresh.
[01:40:34] Speaker D: It does. It smells so good when you walk in there. Doesn't smell like a typical bakery at all. No, definitely smells like cookies.
It's like Santa Claus's favorite store. All right, so thanks for listening. Bye bye.
[01:40:59] Speaker C: Hey, thanks for listening. This has been always be a big deal podcast. You can follow us on Facebook at alwaysbeabigdeal. You can also follow us on all.
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[01:41:21] Speaker A: So until next time, stay awesome, wear.
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